Hayden has always been quite the talker, but it's really been getting fun in the last few months as his vocabulary and observation skills have improved. He remembers things from books and previous conversations and loves to point things out about his surroundings. Car rides are especially entertaining as he doesn't miss a single pick-up truck, construction vehicle (correctly identifying bulldozers and loaders and cherry pickers, etc), school bus, garbage truck, or mail truck. He also points out every bicycle, runner, dog, bird, or other animal we see. And he typically recaps our itinerary while we're on the road, "we're taking Daddy to school!" or "we're going to the library!" or "we're going grocery
shopping then we'll go to another store!"
With all of his understanding of the English language, though, one area that still causes him trouble is pronouns. Specifically "I" and "mine." He just doesn't use them,
preferring to
substitute "you" and "your." For example, we'll see him pause and start to take care of business and then he announces, "
you pooped." We go to the door to get dressed to leave and he announces, "
your hat" and "
your shoes" as we put on his outdoor attire. He plays with "
your trains" and if he drops a utensil on the floor at mealtime he pleads "
your spoon," reaching for it and begging for us to pick it up.
I know why he does it, I mean for months we've been asking "did
you poop?" when we suspect he's done just that. Or we say, "let's put on
your shoes and hat" before we go outside. Or, "do you want to play with
your trains?" and "here's
your spoon." And I'm really guilty of referring to myself in the third person, always saying "Mommy will get that" or "give that to Mommy please." I've been trying to make a conscious effort to say instead "
I will get that" or "give that to
me, please."
I must confess, though, that I'm not super eager to correct his poor grammar. It's incredibly cute when he refers to himself as "you" and I love that the word "mine" isn't really part of his vocabulary (like it is for so many 2 year
olds). When he does finally start getting it right, it's just one more step on the road to growing up and I'm surely going to miss that toddler-
ness.
Love
you, my boy!